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Today's focus was on clearing out the airing cupboard and the small cupboard above it. The latter was absolutely crammed full of old fabrics, most of which have been in there for decades, and now that they're out I can see all the holes in the ceiling. I don't know why I'm still surprised to find things like this. I've known for ages that this house is falling apart.

I'm feeling overwhelmed again. There's so much wrong with this place I don't know if I'm ever going to be able to sort it all out. Sometimes I genuinely think it would be best to tear it all down and rebuilt from scratch, but I know that's not practical. At least not without winning a load of money on the lottery. Maybe we should just sell it and move, but it's not like that's easy to do either. Between the state of the house and all the clutter we still have that never seems to end no matter how much I throw away, I just can't see it happening.

I feel trapped. Trapped and miserable and I hate it.
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I was supposed to be going to a Halloween quiz this evening, but that's fallen through. I'm disappointed cos we'd had it planned for a while and I was really looking forward to it. I love Halloween but don't usually get to do much other than carve a pumpkin at home, so this felt like a really fun idea. I know it's not the end of the world but I can't help being upset, especially when I hardly ever go out. I know this isn't as much of a let down to my friends cos they do things all the time whereas this would have been my third social outing this year.

This week has been quite hectic at work too with my shifts being juggled around at short notice and lack of management meaning I've been running the place for a lot of the time again. Part of me thinks this is a way to look on the bright side of not going to the quiz. After such a busy week it's nice to just stay home and relax. But another part of me thinks that after such a busy week it would have been nice to go to this thing I was really looking forward to.
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Central Heating Update: The valve is completely knackered, the pump isn't working properly, there's a build up of sludge in the pipes, and the boiler should probably be condemned.

I suppose that last one isn't too surprising considering it must be 40 or 50 years old now.

So it's a bigger job than I'd hoped it would be, but maybe it's for the best since we probably should have replaced that boiler years ago. And, if I understand correctly, getting a combi boiler means that the old valve and pump won't be needed any more, so they won't need replacing. It also means we won't need the hot water tank. I don't know if removing that is part of the job when the new boiler is installed but I hope so. Otherwise we're just going to end up with an old hot water tank sitting in the cupboard for the next 20 or 30 years because we never get around to getting rid of it.

This has also motivated me to do better with decluttering. I thought I'd been doing quite well, but seeing someone else try to navigate the house made it clear how very far I still have to go. I think the problem is that once I'd cleared the main living areas I'd allowed myself to not worry so much about the rest. An 'out of sight out of mind' situation, which combined with my clutter blindness makes it very difficult to keep on track.

I do need to be harsher with myself though. I have so much stuff I haven't used in years but feel sentimental about as soon as I see it or delude myself into thinking will be useful in the future somehow. But all that happens is the never ending cycle of failure: Item sits there for ages -> I go to throw it away -> I decide to keep it -> Item sits there for ages -> Repeat.

I know I keep saying I need to be better. Maybe one day I actually will be.

But I'm also still holding out hope for Euromillions this evening. That would solve a whole lot of problems.
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This house is falling apart and I hate it. Yesterday I was perched precariously on a ladder taping up the conservatory roof cos it was leaking (and we live on a hill so I was two floors high rather than just one so it was a bit nerve-wracking.) And as if the task wasn't tricky enough, it was made all the more difficult by the fact that there's a huge pile of rubbish right where the ladder needed to go. Why is there a huge pile of rubbish you ask? Why, that's where the builders threw all the stuff from the patio when they came to fix the other leak. They chucked it all over the side and said they'd clear it away when they came back to do the job, but they never came back. So the patio is still leaking, the downstairs room is pretty much a complete write off, and we still have a big pile of rubbish by the side of the house. I cleared what I could but I'm not strong enough to move the rest.

Which brings me to today. Today we decided that the weather had turned cold enough that we should put the heating on. And guess what? The heating doesn't work. At all. The radiators don't warm up even a little, which tells me it's not that they need bleeding. Also we have hot water so the boiler still works. And the thermostat settings all seem to be correct. So maybe it's a problem with the circulating pump? Or a valve? I don't know nearly enough about central heating systems to have any idea. We're currently waiting for a call back from a central heating engineer and I really hope this will turn out to be something easily fixed.

I'm assuming the engineer will want to get to the airing cupboard, which is in my room. So I felt it was time to take down the posters that have been up for well over twenty years now. I have been wanting to take them down for a while but avoided it cos of the damage to the wallpaper. But this felt like a good impetus to finally get it done. So now I'm left with walls that look depressingly bare and have patches of peeled off wallpaper. Basically, like everything else in this house, my room is tired and run down and in desperate need of renovation.

I just... everything seems like such hard work and I hate that. I want my home to be somewhere I can relax and feel comfortable in, but this place just stresses me out and brings me down. Which is a shame cos I used to love it. When I was a child I hated the thought of moving. And, to be honest, there are some positives. The view for one. When I daydream about winning the jackpot on the lottery I'm torn between the dream of buying a large house somewhere else or throwing money at builders to tear this place down and build a better one here. Maybe I'll win £139 million tomorrow and can do both! I'll need somewhere to live while they're building my dream house after all.
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Happy Friday the 13th everyone!

Lately I've been feeling particularly stressed and unhappy, especially at work, and worrying about pretty much everything, which is not fun. So in this entry I'm going to try and be positive and focus on things that have made me happy recently:

1. Tormund. He's just such a sweetheart and I love him so much! He seems to have settled in well and looks happy here with us, which is wonderful. He still sleeps by the side of my bed. He loves going out in the car. We take him for walks up the woods nearby and he is so well behaved. He's so well behaved in lots of ways, really. We've discovered that he knows his name and will come when called. He knows 'sit' and 'wait' too. He barks when people come to the door, which is actually quite reassuring, but doesn't make noise for no reason. So far he hasn't chewed up anything or made a mess in the house, which to be honest we were kinda expecting due to nervousness and being in a new place.

2. Star Trek: Lower Decks. I've been meaning to watch this series for ages and finally got around to it the other day and I absolutely love it! It's so much fun! It's a great series in its own right with its own characters and storylines, but I do really love all the references to previous Star Treks. It's like a love letter to Trekkies and part of me does wonder how much it will appeal to newcomers, but then it's not really intended for them. That's one of the things I particularly like about it too. They don't explain the references they make, they just expect us to get them. And I love, love, love Beckett Mariner. I mean I love pretty much all of them, but especially Mariner.

3. Sims 4: Seasons. I've been considering buying the Seasons expansion pack for a while now but wasn't sure it was worth the money. So I decided to buy it on a bundle deal along with the Realm of Magic game pack and Spooky Stuff stuff pack. I haven't really done much with the latter two yet, although I am looking forward to delving into the magical realm, but I'm really enjoying Seasons so far. I love how pretty the weather is. And I do like how the different weather affects my Sims, even if it does make some tasks harder. Previously I could stick an easel in the garden and have my Sims practice any time of day, but now they get upset if I make them paint in the rain. And gardening is more challenging cos the plants only grow when they're in season, rather than all the time like before. I also absolutely love the thunderstorms. I know people say they get old quickly cos of how scared your Sims get, but I just love the atmosphere they give. It makes me feel like I'm safe and warm inside while a storm rages on outside.
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And so November draws to a close. Not much to report on my end. We've spent most of the month in lockdown after all. I did built the Lego Haunted House on my week off work, so that was fun. And then went back to work to get shouted at by many people who didn't seem to realise there even was a lockdown.

The main news of the month, of course, was America correcting the terrible mistake they made four years ago and not re-electing the ridiculous orange man-baby to a second term of office as President. Well done, America. I'm proud of you. If only we were allowed to correct the terrible mistake we made four years ago when we voted for Brexit, but alas we don't have that option.

Christmas is rapidly approaching, but like everything else this year it doesn't feel quite real. Obviously I'm not going to be able to do my usual Christmas trip to London, which does make me very sad. It's something I really look forward to cos I love going up, spending time with Paul, and seeing the pretty lights and browsing the Christmas Markets and drinking mulled wine and singing along to Muppet Christmas Carol with a whole cinema of people. I even enjoy braving the crowds at Winter Wonderland in order to win small cuddly toys on the shooting games.

Another thing that's different this year is the Christmas tree. I've always been an advocate for a real tree. I love the way it smells, filling the whole room with the scent of Christmas so that when you come downstairs in the morning the very air in the house feels festive. But normally Rob drives up and we pick out the tree together, which is not an option this year cos we're in Tier Two so can't mix indoors. So I've gone for an artificial tree. Hopefully it will still look nice, and maybe I'll pick up a small potted real tree from the supermarket to try and get some of the Christmassy smell I so love as well.
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Ok, first of all I just want to say that I am still working on my Ships of the 2010s list. I've completely missed my self-imposed end of January deadline but I am making progress. I have next week off work so I should have more time for it then, although not the whole week cos Monday will be taken up with watching the Oscars (I've given in to the fact that I'm too old to stay up until 5am to watch it live any more) and then on Tuesday I'm going to London to see Hamilton a second time (Yay!) and am planning to stay for the quiz on Wednesday and come back on Thursday.

I am so ready for this week off cos I feel completely worn out by work. And just in general. I've spent the last few days feeling really tired and heavy and like I just want to curl up and cry for a while.

Also, I've been having thoughts about The Good Place finale and I wanted to put them in writing, so here we go:

Goodbye to The Good Place )

:(

Jan. 31st, 2020 07:45 pm
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I felt sad enough today because it's Brexit Day and I still think that leaving the EU is one of the stupidest decisions this country has ever made, but then I made the mistake of watching the final episode of The Good Place and now I'm just going to go cry in a corner...
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I have returned from Wales! I had a lovely time and the weather wasn't too bad. Some days were lovely and sunny, some days were grey and rainy, and a couple of times we had proper downpours but it definitely could have been worse!

I do plan to make proper posts with pictures when I feel up to it. Which may be next week or next month. Who knows with me and my procrastination? Hopefully before next year though!

In other news, Photobucket reduced their monthly rates to a reasonable amount and while I didn't really want to give any money to such a terrible site, I am incredibly lazy and still haven't moved my screencaps over to another image host and this way I wouldn't have to, so I decided to bite the bullet and pay the subscription. But despite them taking my money Photobucket haven't actually upgraded my account and so far haven't replied to my emails so I'm really not happy with them at all.
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Ok, so running is not going as well as I hoped. I was prepared for a reasonable amount of aches and pains as my lazy body got used to doing actual exercise again, but it was far more painful than I expected and I ended up hobbling about cos my back, knees, and the tops of my feet were killing me. The first two are ok now, but my feet still hurt and I'm pretty sure I've managed to give myself extensor tendonitis. So I'm trying to rest but the trouble is that while I can avoid running I can't avoid walking as my work involves me being on my feet for hours at a time so it's not getting better as quickly as I hoped.

I know that part of the problem is I have flat feet. I should probably go to a running shop and get proper advice on what shoes I should wear, which is a shame cos my social anxiety was really, really hoping to avoid that.

I'm also thinking about taking up yoga. At home, of course, but there are plenty of online tutorials and I'm hoping that it'll help with my strength and flexibility and make me less injury-prone.

Part of me is wondering if I'm just not meant to be a runner and should just give up now. But I don't want to give up that easily. I still think it would be good for me, health-wise, and I'd rather not have to walk the whole 7k that I'm doing in May.

RIP Tilly

Jun. 20th, 2018 05:59 pm
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I'd been preparing myself for something to be seriously wrong with Tilly and I knew it was a likely possibility that she was going to die soon. I just didn't realise how soon it was going to be. She seemed fine yesterday morning but lost energy as the day went on. I was worried when she ate her dinner without her usual enthusiasm, but the fact that she ate it at all felt like a good sign. Then a bit later she flopped on the floor and didn't want to move. As I was wondering whether to take her to the vet right then or wait and see if she perked up a bit tomorrow, she died.

I told her she was a very good dog and I loved her very much. I take comfort in the fact that we gave her a good life for nine years. Right from the start she was my dog, coming straight up to me at the rescue centre and happily going along with me despite the staff at the centre saying that we'll need help cos she doesn't like strangers. It was like she knew who I was and had been waiting for me to arrive.

I'm really going to miss her.

Darling Dog )
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I have returned from The Great European Adventure! It was a good trip and I do plan to make a post about it at some point, but at the moment I'm too annoyed with Photobucket to do much more than vent.

Turns out that, about ten days ago, they decided not to allow 3rd party hosting any more despite it being free for years. And, as a result, almost all the links to images in my posts no longer work. Years worth of Prison Break recaps, shippy picspams, Oscar dress reports, holiday posts, photography posts, basically almost everything that involved a picture is now ruined.

I'm not paying $400 a year, cos that's fucking ridiculous, but to move all my photos and manually change all the links in all my posts will take forever. I love going back and re-reading my old recaps and, as has recently been proved, other people sometimes stumble across my blog and enjoy my shippy picspams, and I don't want to lose them either. So all I can hope is that Photobucket change their minds. I don't know how likely that is, but an awful lot of other people are pissed off with them about this too, so there's a chance. *fingers crossed*
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Once again I've been away from LJ for a while, mostly because I've been busy with Probate stuff and tidying the house and when I do go online I want something mindless like reblogging stuff on Tumblr or reading endless Buzzfeed posts. But I also need somewhere to write and get my thoughts down properly, so here we go:

Probate stuff is coming along. Rob and I are joint executors of Dad's estate and we're contacting various banks and organisations to get all the information together in order to apply for Probate. It's mostly going all right, although I did get a letter back from someone saying that they'd checked their records and had found no accounts under that name and I'm just like "Oh really? Then why do I have this letter from your very department, dated February this year, addressed to my dad and talking about his account?" Ugh.

The tidying the house thing is a bit weird too. I think it must be a reaction to the grief because I've always been a pretty messy person and a bit of a hoarder. (I'm the kind of person who watches the show Hoarders in order to feel better about myself because at least I'm not that bad!) But now I'm in CLEAN ALL THE THINGS mode, as well as THROW AWAY ALL THE THINGS YOU KEPT BECAUSE YOU TOLD YOURSELF THEY'D BE USEFUL IN THE FUTURE BUT IT'S TIME TO ADMIT THEY WON'T BE AND JUST GET RID OF THEM mode. I quite like it actually and hope that I can keep it up because it would be great to have a house where things are actually tidy and I can get to what I want easily.

So mostly I feel like things are going ok and I'm not doing too badly. Or at least I did until earlier today when I had a bit of a breakdown at work and now I feel stupid and embarrassed about it.

One of my managers was having a go at me for not fully explaining the feedback cards when I hand them out and I got upset and argued back, which then made him get even more annoyed and started threatening me with a disciplinary and whatever. I wish I could have remained rational, because I do have actual reasons why I think he was being unfair, but it just upset me so much because the managers were going on about these stupid feedback cards back in March when Dad was dying and bringing them up again felt like bringing everything about that time up again. Maybe that's silly and probably doesn't make sense to a lot of people, but it's how I feel and I genuinely was really, seriously upset.

But I do also think it was unfair, because back in March my main manager specifically said I just had to hand out the cards. That was it. He didn't say start with just handing out the cards for now. He said just hand out the cards, that's all that's required. And so, I took him at his word and believed that that was all that was required. But now apparently that's not enough. I really hate moving goalposts. You can't tell me I have to do x and then get mad at me for not doing x and y. And if you are going to change the rules, you have to then explain that to me. Not aggressively moan at me for not doing something that I had been told wasn't required.

So yeah, I don't think he was being fair but I know that by reacting the way I did I've lost a lot of credibility and that really annoys me. (But, tbh, I also feel like it's not unreasonable for me to expect a bit of leeway? He went on about how this is the same for everyone and I kinda feel like I shouldn't be held to the same expectations as everyone else right now. Is that wrong? I mean it's been less than two months since Dad died and I kinda feel like the message here is that I should be over it already.)

I'm not looking forward to going in tomorrow but I'm going to try and smooth things over. My initial urge was just to quit and find something else, but I know this is the wrong time to be making decisions like that. And I have no confidence in myself and my ability to find a new job anyway.
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Apparently my mood is like a yoyo lately and right now it's definitely at a low point.

But with this post I have officially won NaBloPoMo for another year, so yay for that.
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Today did not start well. I realised last night that I've lost my FitBit. I've tried retracing my steps, assuming that it fell off at some point, but I haven't found it and I'm not sure where else it could be. It's annoying because I can't afford to replace it any time soon and I'd been interested in seeing how many steps I take over the Christmas period when we get really busy. If I do have to get another one I'll probably go for a higher model, one which tracks floors as well as steps, and maybe has a heart rate monitor too. Also one that attaches like a watch and not just clips together, so hopefully this won't happen again. But that probably won't be till after Christmas.

It's also annoying because it means I'm going to fall behind on my badges and ruin all my stats. And these things matter to me, dammit!

My day didn't get much better at work when the very first customer I had was snippy and rude. Always a lovely way to start the day. I spent most of my shift feeling tired and sad and just wanting to go home.

But it's ok! Because I made it through and now I'm home and I have wine. And tomorrow I'm going to watch fireworks. Yay.

Now, onto topic three for November: Favourite movie.

I'm not a huge movie-watcher, I much prefer TV shows, which makes it difficult to chose a favourite, but some films I absolutely love are:

1. Beauty and the Beast
2. Moulin Rouge
3. The Mummy
4. The Princess Bride
5. Muppet Christmas Carol

And yes, if you pushed me for an absolute favourite I would probably say Beauty and the Beast. I've watched that film so many times and it never loses its magic.
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Ah, PMS. How much do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I can't decide if my favourite part is the way my mood plummets so far down that I end up feeling absolutely hopeless and suicidal, or the way that my sensitivity to sounds increases so much that I feel like clawing out of my skin just by being near other people and the noises they make, which, when coupled with my extra irritability, leaves me feeling constantly on the verge of screaming at someone for simply existing. Or possibly bursting into tears, which I can't imagine would go down very well either.

And let's not forget the inability to concentrate on anything for more than a few seconds and the almost constant nausea and tiredness. So many super happy fun time things to choose from!

Ahem.

Moving on...

I found a lump on Tilly's leg on Sunday. We took her to the vet and they took a sample. They called yesterday and it's not malignant, which is a relief, but they're also not sure what it is. We're going to keep an eye on it and if it looks like it's getting bigger we're going to take her in to have it removed. The thought of that does worry me though, cos she's such a nervous dog. I don't want her to think we're abandoning her there!

Also, last night was pub quiz night. After our aberration of fourth place a few weeks ago we were back to full strength and back on top once again. So that was fun. I'm not sure the early start this morning has helped my mood any, but I still think it's worth it.

I've been considering writing an entry about the latest episodes of my TV shows, but at the moment it would mostly be me complaining and that's no fun. Hopefully I'll feel better in a few days and in a better position to talk about them.
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So apparently I was premature with my Castle love yesterday.

In which I rant about the latest episode )
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Today I feel mostly tired and sad and like I just want to go to bed and stay there for the next three days.

Instead I'm going to Surbiton later for a pub quiz. Hopefully it will be as fun as the last one, and I'm looking forward to seeing people again.

I'm a bit worried about the fact that I will have to leave Paul's place at 6am tomorrow in order to get to work on time, though. I hadn't thought it would be a problem, but with the way I'm feeling at the moment I think getting up at all could prove challenging.

RIP McGee

Jun. 8th, 2015 06:23 pm
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Well, he made it through the night and died this morning while I was at work. He was on the sofa when it happened, which is nice. It was another one of his favourite spots and there were people around so he wasn't alone.

It'll be strange without him though. I'll miss how he would jump on my lap and curl up there, making me stay for longer than I intended to cos I didn't have the heart to move him. And sometimes when he knew I was coming in he would sit by the sofa and look at me, waiting for me to sit down before he jumped up. I'll miss how affectionate he could be (when he wanted to, of course), a marked change from how he was when the neighbours first moved here and he would run at the very sight of us. I'll miss the way he would steal my chair after I got up for just a second. I'll even miss the way he would refuse to let me use my iPad or laptop sometimes, insisting that he should have all my attention and that pointless device was just in the way. I can't say I'll miss him meowing at 5am, but it will be strange not to hear it any more.

We buried him under the bush at the side of the garden, one with lovely purple flowers. Now I'll always think of it as the McGee bush.

Kitty :(

Jun. 7th, 2015 07:33 pm
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I think McGee is on his last legs. He's off his food and he's been getting more and more unsteady on his feet over the last three days. Today he could barely walk. I suppose I can't be too upset; he must around 19 or 20, which is damn good for a cat! And he wasn't even our cat to begin with. He was the neighbours' until he decided that he would rather live with us. But that was a while ago now and he's been here for years and I do think of him as ours. Or, rather, us as his. I'll miss him when he goes.

He's currently lying down in the conservatory. He always liked that spot. I kinda hope he just stops breathing there, it would be a nice way to go.

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